To give a gift or to not give a gift...that is the question. And a question that kinda sucks at this time of year.
At the core of my being..I am a gift giver. But at this time of year, being a giver can make you look like an ass, when you are really only trying to be nice. I have a way of making mental notes during the year of random things that people say they are into or want. IT IS JUST WHAT I DO. So, when prime gift giving time comes around, I am READY. The issue of assness comes into play when you give a gift to someone who really had no idea that you were going to play Santa. You make them feel bad and then in turn you feel bad and that just leads to heavy drinking...and well...just your basic downward spiral of hating the world. And do I really need to hate the world more then I already do? No. Probably not.
And on a selfish note--It makes me feel a bit unloved. While I know that it is always better to give then to get...once in a while it would be nice to get something in return! BUY A GIRL A COFFEE--I AM NOT PICKY. Sorry...small vent out of the way...we can all move on now!
Hey world....here is your warning. If I show up with a gift, just pretend to adore me. Ok? Thanks!
**PS....This is high on my list this year (as well as anything else that comes in a lil blue box from Tiffany's or Coach) A girl can dream!
|i need a bit of luck for 2011!|